Wedding ring

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What did you do with your wedding ring when you divorced? 


I stopped wearing it immediately. It was a piece of jewelry that I always liked, even if it represented something that I did not like. When I needed money, I made up a number in my head that I wouldn't go below and I sold it to a local jeweler. 


My only regret is that I was put in a position where I was forced to sell it. I would have probably kept it otherwise, but for what I'm not sure. Probably to keep just in case I needed the money. So. 


Now I tend to wear giant rings on all of my fingers. None of them are fine jewelry and that is fine with me.  

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